• EmilieEasie@fedinsfw.app
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    4 days ago

    I’ve had a few dudes approach me in a similar way. If you’re interacting in porno spaces online, it’s more common than you’d think, buuuut unfortunately still a lot less common than dudes who don’t treat me like a person.

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      4 days ago

      Are unsolicited pictures of Dick Van Dyke ok?

      Oh, pants, now I’ve asked they won’t be unsolicited. I need to really rethink my dick game plans!!

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      I dunno what age range of dick pics you get from people but I, for one, am glad I’m passed my dick pic sending era. You should definitely get treated like a person more often than it sounds like you do.

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        3 days ago

        … I’ve never sent an unsolicited dick pic.

        Sure, if someone is asking… and like, we are actively, mutually sexting…

        I dunno.

        Never made any sense to me at all, to do that unprompted.

        Not trying to like, dog on you, I just literally don’t get it, how it would sense to do that.

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          I chalk it up to me being young, dumb, and too horny to really think things through before I would do that. I’m sure there’s something more lurking beneath but I haven’t given it enough thought to try and figure that of my psyche out.

          Cuz you right, it didn’t make sense to do it, ever, yet I did it and it was indeed stupid. Good on you for having better sense than I, only wish that was more common than it is.

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        4 days ago

        We love character growth!

        I guess I should explain a little more: when people approach me with the intent to sext, or whatever, most of them are terrible and disrespectful about it. People who just message me to be like “I like your art!” (i’m a porno artist) or whatever still comprise most of the messages I get and those people are generally good :)

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          Ugh some people really don’t get that sex related skills are skills and people who are into them aren’t constantly horny and desperate

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            2 days ago

            Personally, even if I was horny and desperate, I wouldn’t want to be approached that way lol! Definitely not with unsolicited dick pics.

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          Well that actually super nice to hear that the majority of messages you get are wholesome or kind in nature. It rekindles a little spark of hope in humanity in me that is always at risk of being snuffed out with everything going on in the world right now.

          Keep doing what you do kind stranger, you seem like a genuinely kind person.

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      They don’t treat you as a person on porno places and you are surprised?

      What kind of people do you think hang out there… Its not going to be people interested in your soul.

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        4 days ago

        What part of my post indicated surprise to you?

        To be clear, I’m never surprised when men are rude to me online, regardless of the space I’m in lol. I am generally disappointed that that’s the state of the Internet, which I think is the correct way to feel.

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        3 days ago

        You sound like my closeted bisexual friend, who hates people who make money via adult websites. You still have some growing up, just like him.

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          It’s not growing up to use adult websites. :)

          I dont hate those people either. I wouldn’t want that life though.