• Maeve@kbin.earth
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    2 days ago

    Is it not feeling like it or not having the proper tools and skillset to use the tools? Because I’ve been there and it was a long, slow, determined journey that led me out of it. Decades long. But I got here.

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        No we’re talking about how I learned self-esteem, and did the work on myself to not mistake easy access for appreciation. Because that’s not what it is, and the Epstein dumps cleared up remaining questions (eg affirmed what I suspected, once I cleared the brain fog of too much gaslighting, drugs, and alcohol).

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      Fuck that’s discouraging!

      I’ve got a bunch of tools and so on but being middle aged, I’m a bit sure if I’ve got the energy for change

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        Well I had no tools, skills, or money, and a set of really messed up environment with a crabs in a bucket mentality, so it doesn’t have to be that way for everyone.