she, her, etc.
- 2 Posts
- 6 Comments
hell yeah this is peak
uh also when i started hrt i noticed i smelled a lot different, and it varies a little based on how long its been since application. in your experience does sex hormone fluctuation like actually have a noticeable effect on this too or not really? personally i’ve never really payed attention hehe
kivihiili@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•a girl can never be hyperfeminine/sexual, chaotic, unfiltered online without ulterior motives allegationsEnglish
101·5 days agocw: talks a fair bit about sex and my perspective on it
i sometimes experience a problem myself similar in vain to this.
as much as i enjoy snuggling and affection and even more “smutty” stuff like breasts, i do not enjoy the prospect of sex. perhaps its some form of gender dysphoria, perhaps its something else, honestly not super sure. all i know is i don’t find sex appealing!! but i’m also not vehemently against it or disgusted by it. i think this article puts it really well:
i think it would be more accurate so [sic] say that, often, asexuality yearns for the absence of sex, rather than being defined by it.
with regards to nudity: the only times it actually makes me feel a little uncomfortable is when it is set in a sexual/romantic setting. if someone is at the lake with not as much as a patch of covering on them and just swimming around and having fun, i don’t mind at all. so long as its not sexualized i think nudity is perfectly okay! but, if it is brought into any romance through even just caressing the other’s hair or whatever, it puts me off a little.
again, i do like this sort of affection, i do absolutely find people attractive. i just enjoy being able to be affectionate or observe it without having to partake in/bear witness to sex!
however, a marginally decent number of people are seemingly unable to comprehend any this. quite often some people get incredibly confused no matter how much i try and explain this to them. i’ve never really been ridiculed for it thankfully, but it just does not seem to compute in some people’s heads that i am not fond of sex!!
that aside, this is thankfully one of the better places i’ve seen on the internet, and i’m glad to be here!! regardless i provide you with my best wishes when it comes to fending off the demands of the internet, and my apologies for the ramble :D
yayyy
one more for the collection!!
i find this a surprisingly elegant solution!!!
it’s nice and simple to put in place, and if you have this class of audio equipment at your whim, you probably have something to scavenge the copper from
copper does oxidize, but so long as it can trade broker enough electrons around, i’m definitely making use of this idea in the future, thank you for the post


ctrl+v: (from a previous post)
middle click: (from a message i sent to my friend on steam i think? no idea how middle click clipboard actually works honestly)
(if you want a conclusion to the story, i realized that my coat would have completely obscured it and no embarrassment was to be had lol)