• velma@sh.itjust.works
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    2 days ago

    Much more rude to tell a woman you don’t want to fuck her after she’s taken her clothes off.

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        16 hours ago

        Never said he did. I’m saying it’s probably better to bring up such a strong preference before clothes come off.

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          17 hours ago

          It was a tongue-in-cheek comment about people who legitimately believe that a woman has been raped if she changes her mind during, but never relays that information to the man.

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            17 hours ago

            No one was talking about that here. YOU brought up rape unprovoked.

            Rape isn’t funny.

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              16 hours ago

              You straight up said it’s not ok to tell a woman that you’re no longer interested in sex.

              Having sex when you don’t want to because you feel pressured into it is generally considered SA when it happens to a woman.

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                16 hours ago

                Nothing wrong with talking about expectations prior to banging.

                In theory - yes. But in practice it would be rude and / or ruining the moment.

                Much more rude to tell a woman you don’t want to fuck her after she’s taken her clothes off.

                Since reading comprehension has escaped you here - I said it’s more rude to share you won’t fuck hairy women after clothes are off. It is a better idea to be upfront about how you can’t get your dick hard unless a woman is hairless rather than share that after clothes have already come off.

                I said absolutely fucking NOTHING about rape or forcing people to have sex they don’t want.