• sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      I keep seeing zoomers use this and it keeps confusing the shit out of me, because half the time, it just looks like crying, not laughing-crying.

      Maybe they’re just bad at it and using the wrong emoji half the time? idfk

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          I genuinely do not know, but I keep running into that, where they just use the crying emoji and they tell me it means they’re laughing so hard they cried (not literally of course but w/e)… even though there actually is a laughing-crying emoji.

          I’m going to yell at clouds tiktok, its probably cloud’s tiktok’s fault, somehow.

          EDIT:

          like, I tell a joke, they respond with a crying emoji, I am confused and apologetic because I think I hurt their feelings and they are just sad crying… nope.

          Nope they actually liked the joke.

          This has happened to me a number of times in the last 6-9 months, with different people.

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            I am actually gen z and the “😂” has simply become cringe because older people overused it so much and I guess that’s why we switched to “😭”

            It’s also interesting to me how you still see it as crying because my brain just doesn’t make that connection at all anymore

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              I genuienly appreciate the explanation, that makes sense.

              2 reasons unc here sees them similarly:

              A ) I barely ever use emojis

              Many millennials grew up using

              *-*

              =D

              :<

              0.0

              >=[

              … style constructions to represent emotions / facial expressions in text.

              I’m used to those, I’m not used to emojis.

              B ) I’m just actually slowly losing visual acuity.

              I’m getting oooollldddd.

              I’ve got an astigmatism now, and I tend to only wear my glasses when I absolutely need to.

              So I have to squint or put on my glasses to make out variations in emojis, sometimes.

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            It’s because the regular laugh crying emoji got watered down so if something was really fuuny, one has to escalate.

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            Maybe because it isn’t cool to use 😂? It has a bit of a bad rep in that it’s seen as a boomer-emoji, I think.

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        I’ve begun to find it grating, because somewhere along the line it seems to have been co-opted by people who exclusively communicate through passive aggression online lol

        So it’s no longer “Who did this 😭😭”

        And more like “Why are you buying takeout after complaining about minimum wage being low 😭😭”

      • TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works
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        It’s like when it’s sad but also funny, so like, you’re laughing, but also crying in a “this is too real” kinda way

        At least that’s how me and my friends seem to use it :p